Back To The Beginning Of Ming To Do Charity

Nowadays, large families train their children, and the six arts of gentleman must be understood, especially those who have the foundation, inherited for a hundred years-even claiming to be a thousand years, they have more ways to train children, and they are more careful. In rule, there is a saying that "a woman has no talent is a virtue", but the upper echelons completely scoff at this saying.

They are not like the common people. Their daughters are members of other people's families when they marry, but for large families, their daughters are also a bargaining chip. They marry their daughters to get more benefits, so their daughters must understand piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. , Not only to be a good mistress, but also to be a jealous flower for her husband.

Can't the husband talk about the beauty of the world, and the wife next to talk about how many clothes he sewed today?

For them, the female red is just a leisure time to pass the time. The real craftsmanship is the embroiderer, and they can afford a few, a dozen embroiderers, why bother to do it yourself?Only when you express your concern will you do it yourself, which means that you value it and will not send it out easily.

Their wisdom and knowledge are passed on from generation to generation. The men and women in the big family are tightly guarded, please man?Etiquette can’t go well. It’s okay before the age of ten. After the age of ten, any man, even his own brother, can’t meet several times a year.

Mrs.?How could a truly learned woman be outside?They are probably also inherited from the family, and they have received the most rigorous education. Even if their daughters haven't finished teaching, they still teach other families?

Therefore, mothers usually educate their daughters. In order to ensure the quality of the next generation in the family, when a large family gets married, the first thing to ask is whether the other's daughter is virtuous and virtuous, and whether he reads to read.

They have their wisdom, an excellent lady, she must not only be proficient in literature, but also know how to calculate the accounts, know how to cooperate with her husband, and learn the art of imperialism in the house. If she is an all-rounder.

Let the husband be inseparable from her, become the help of the husband, share the power with the husband, and even some powerful, can control the husband.

Only the daughters raised in this way can ensure the prosperity of the family.

Son, that's even more important.

In addition to the six arts of gentlemen, they have to follow their father and brother to increase their knowledge since childhood. They only have to learn more. Sometimes they even have to learn the skills of women in the inner courtyard, not only being good internally, but also externally.

Good-looking takes advantage of yourself, but if you are not good-looking, you have to pay great attention to your appearance, talking, and temperament.

How to walk, how to raise your hands and feet to look good, what kind of expression on your face when interacting with people, what kind of clothes you wear on different occasions, these are all very particular.

Chu Lin was a young man who was trained in this way.

He was born in Changshu. The Chu family in Changshu may not be one of the big family, but the inheritance has been a hundred years. The Chu family is not courageous and can be called cautious. Every time before doing anything, we must discuss it with all the children. Okay, the day lily is also cold.

But this also brought them benefits, that is, not making mistakes, so after so many years, the Chu family has not experienced any storms.

Their family began to study after Lin Yuan took over Changshu. They wanted to please Lin Yuan, not to mention any benefits, at least not to let Lin Yuan use their family’s ideas, so whether it is money or food, as long as it shows a little meaning, They quickly sent it up.

I heard that Lin Yuan likes masculine style, and non-stop gave his best-looking son to Lin Yuan.

What they mean is: "This son has no great abilities, he is not a clever man, but he looks good and doesn’t cause trouble. He will serve as a cup of tea by your side or do other things. It depends on you. He does what he does."

Quite a bit of the meaning of a strong man cutting his wrist.

Lin Yuan didn't believe it at first, and sent his son up as a plaything, this family was willing to?

Didn’t the ancients take their faces seriously?

Song Shizhao reminded him.

"Back then, Dong Xian and Hanai Emperor left short-sleeved stories. Dong Xian also offered his wife Xiaoxian to Hanai Emperor." Song Shizhao smiled, "It is also a good story."

Lin Yuan: "...Mr. is kidding, it's just folklore."

If Emperor Han Ai really had something with Dong Xian, it would prove that he was in good physical condition. How could it be possible that he could not give birth to a child in his entire life?Lin Yuan felt that the so-called good masculinity was just a fig leaf for Han Ai's "impotence".

If Emperor Han Ai really took in Dong Xian's wife, then Dong Xian's wife should always have a big belly?That's not it.

This means that Emperor Ai of Han is not a "waste man", he just likes to be different from ordinary people.

Song Shizhao mentioned one more thing: "In order to win Qi Huan's love, Yi Ya chopped his young son into mashed meat and made meatballs to serve Qi Huan's food. This Chu family is nothing more than that. "

Lin Yuan sighed, "This is how people feel."

For status and benefit.

These upper-class families can give up everything, including their own children, and even they can give away their wives.

It’s not just gifting concubine Ji, gifting a wife, this kind of thing is done, you know, this is almost tore off one's own skin and make people step on it.

The wife can be willing, let alone the son.

In this respect, Lin Yuan felt that they were not as good as the people who didn't know a lot of characters.

Originally, Lin Yuan thought that the Chu family was humble. After all, anyone who saw Chu Lin would think that this was a handsome young man with a jade crown and a phoenix look like a dragon. He carried the temperament that every young man had in every gesture. The maids inside would blush when they saw him, and they started to pay attention to their appearance unconsciously, and even some of the servants would blush when they saw him.

But Chu Lin is indeed a sloppy beauty.

He is talented, but he doesn't know how to use his talents and learns from him. It's just a gadget that raises his value.

But he is very likable, even if he doesn't say anything, the people who talk to him are always talking.

This can be considered skill.

Lin Yuan asked him to receive guests. These guests included big businessmen and patriarchs of big families, and then-half of these people wanted to ask him to go, even "If Lin follows me, I will give him all the power of his family to enjoy. "Such words can be said.

Among them was a big businessman named Qi. He fell in love with Chu Lin sincerely. In order to see Chu Lin, he almost had to give Lin Yuan things every three to five. There was no way. He didn’t have government affairs and he didn’t see small businesses It was even more unlikely that Chu Lin would entertain him when he arrived at Lin Yuan, so he began to pay for it out of his own pocket.

Chu Lin didn't know.

He was sent to Lin Yuan by his family and didn't know what he was here for.

No one in the family told him, nor did anyone at the government office tell him that if he couldn't reach outside, he really thought he was here to serve as a servant for Lin Yuan.

Although he believes that he is only talented, he also knows that the person who is the most talented person is also a subordinate when he goes to the authority, so there is no resistance.

Then he began to receive merchants and patriarchs of large households. Chu Lin felt that he was appreciated by Lin Yuan, so from time to time he had to swipe his face card in front of Lin Yuan, just like a peacock opening the screen, just barely singing and telling Lin Yuan himself still has many abilities.

Sometimes Lin Yuan wanted to squeeze his face when he saw him inviting pets like a puppy in front of him.

——Lin Yuan held back.

At the same time, Lin Yuan began to reflect on himself.

Sure enough, men have no moral integrity, as long as they look good, they basically don't pick men and women.

Hmm... he himself is an unscrupulous man.

Then Lin Yuan pushed Chu Lin ahead of others, and he began to pass on Lin Yuan's decree from generation to generation. Outsiders, especially those from large families, felt that being a "male favorite" was also a ladder to heaven!Such a matter of passing government orders from generation to generation seems to be a trivial matter, but it also means that he can know Lin Yuan's movements for the first time.

For the family, knowing the intent of the superior means that they can react more quickly, scratch the itch of those in power, and then enter the eyes of those in power and be favored.

Isn't this real power?

So they-collectively sent their son over.

They are all pretty.

Angzang is a young man, a beautiful young man, with a face like a pan-an, with a graceful demeanor, and has everything that you need.

But Lin Yuan was so happy.

"I thought that there were fewer people available." Lin Yuan said to Song Shizhao, "I feel better now."

These people may not be the materials for officials, but they all have real talents, at least knowledge is enough, even if they are not officials, it is good to build civilization for the people. This is definitely enough.

What's more, there are already few people available in his hand, and he is reluctant to let these people be hidden at home.

Song Shizhao sighed: "My subordinates never expected that you have so many plans."

It’s just a good man. It’s a joke, but who would have thought that because of this, there are more young and strong under the rule of the Nan Bodhisattva. Not only that, but also the next generation of those big families hiding in the house. .

Taking one step to see a hundred steps, Song Shizhao worshipped Lin Yuan: "The strength of the Nan Bodhisattva's mind and the secret of planning make his subordinates happy and surrender."

Lin Yuan smiled at him: "It's just a trail, sir, Qutuo was relieved of military power."

Most of the emperors were mentally retarded. To be precise, most of the civil and military forces in the Manchu dynasty were mentally retarded. Because they were afraid that the leading general would turn a hand in the troubled times, he gave the Xia Zhao the power to get rid of Timur, and the army was millions. The crowd broke up in an instant. From then on, the Yuan army had no more power to contend with the rebels.

Song Shizhao: "South Bodhisattva means..."

Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Mr. may subdue him?"

Song Shizhao looked at Lin Yuan's eyes.

At this moment, his blood boiled!

But Song Shizhao calmed down quickly: "He is a Mongolian after all..." How could he be willing to do things for the Han?

Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Do I only fight Yuan soldiers?"

Song Shizhao's eyes widened.

He stood upright in his clothes and knelt down towards Lin Yuan: "This person must be won!"

He heard the Nan Bodhisattva above say to him: "Then it is all dependent on Mr.".

Song Shizhao is lying on the ground, and the Nan Bodhisattva can tell him to show his talents, even if he is asked to be the devil in charge of the blade, he is willing!

The author has something to say: Folk:

"I heard that the son of the Chu family is the most favored around Nan Bodhisattva."

"It must be good to want to come to bed!"

"The figure must be the best!"

Chu Family:

"What? Marry me?"

"Who to marry?"

"Is he crazy?! Want to marry my son?!"