Guide To Raising the Sick Villain
Chapter 119:
Qiao Lan's heart surged with indescribable anger.
But Ji Su continues,
"If you think this question is a bit difficult, we can start with a simpler initial question. Let's not discuss people with mental illnesses. Let's discuss whether people with disabilities can have their own love."
This problem is much simpler than before.
After Ji Su said this, someone answered immediately.
"The disabled also have love because loving someone is regardless of age, skin color, or race. Of course, there is no distinction between health and disability!"
"Why can't, the disabled are also emotional and thinking, how can they not have love?"
Everyone's rare thoughts agree, and they all believe that this issue does not need to be discussed at all.
Ji Su smiled, not surprised at all, "It's good for everyone to think that way. You can't be prejudiced against anyone, but today we are going to discuss more realistic issues, so I will ask more directly, since you With all that said, can you accept a boyfriend or girlfriend with a disability?"
As soon as these words came out, all the people who had just been arguing to speak were dumb.
People always talk loudly when talking about other people, and when they get to themselves, they become obstructive. It took a long time for someone to speak. Qiao Lan turned out to be Roman.
Roman thought for a while and said, "If I really like it, it doesn't matter even if it is a disabled person."
"It doesn't matter to you, what about your parents, your friends, and other people out of society in the future?"
With a single sentence, Ji Su pushed Roman back, and Roman was startled and stopped talking.
But Ji Su is smart. After taking Roman back, he followed Roman’s idea to round out Roman’s words. In everyone’s opinion, Ji Su is very fair and rational, which shows that the disabled can be like normal people. Having your own love, but the road to love is much harder than normal people.
Even Qiao Lan couldn't find out where this kind of rhetoric was inappropriate.
After this topic has passed, I will return to the topic just now, that is, can people with mental illness have normal love, because just a case has just been analyzed, so when this question comes out, everyone will inevitably think of the threatening girlfriend suicide Boys.
A natural conclusion comes out, that is, no.
Because of mental illness, I am thinking wildly, so I am paranoid, stubborn, extreme, possessive, and when I am unsatisfactory, I also make my partner feel unhappy.
And the most frightening thing is that they don't think it's sick or wrong at all.
This time everyone's discussion was more intense than before.
Some say that if you have a mental illness, in order to make yourself and the people around you live better, the most sensible thing is to stay away.Once we are really together, what should we do if the condition gets worse, even if we have a child later, if the child also has a genetic disease, will the healthy partner of the couple complain?Will children complain when they grow up?Some people also say that patients are already isolated by society, and there are few friends willing to be with them, let alone lovers?Knowing that they are sick, how many are willing to marry him?They desire to have a complete family more than others.
Qiao Lan remained silent.
I didn't think it at the beginning, but the more behind, Qiao Lan felt that this discussion was strange and inexplicable.
What is the use of discussing these? At the end of the discussion, can people with mental illness be cured? Can the bad events caused by mental illness be reduced?
This discussion ability is abnormal, and Ji Su, who has been leading the topic down, is even more abnormal.
Ji Su emphasized over and over again what he wanted to be normal.
Qiao Lan really didn't want a simple discussion to become such a conspiracy theory, but Ji Su poked her heart with a few words, Qiao Lan couldn't help but wonder if he knew something and was targeting something.
She raised her head and glanced at Ji Su, who was still the usual gentle and gentle appearance.
Qiao Lan thought that maybe she was thinking too much, she gave herself another possibility, as long as Ji Su didn't deliberately click her to speak.
Thinking like this, Ji Suo, who had not spoken a while ago, suddenly said, “Since it’s a discussion, then just talk. Qiao Lan, the first one."
Qiao Lan's fingers tightened.
She closed her eyes, waited to open her eyes again and stared at Ji Su, and asked him, "What do seniors think is normal love?"
Without waiting for Ji Su to speak, Qiao Lan continued,
"I think that normal love is what you want, not politically correct. It is not a normal mentality to use "justice" in feelings. I think this problem of seniors can be extended. Short people do not deserve normal love. Isn’t money not worthy of having normal love? Isn’t it ugly to have normal love?"
"Since seniors want to talk about reality, let's talk about the most realistic problem. Normal people want a house, a car, and a ticket when they find a girlfriend. Even if the girlfriend doesn't want it, the mother-in-law is not easy. Who wants a daughter to marry someone? People with money endure hardships. Normal people will not experience low self-esteem and ridicule. They will also encounter unsatisfactory feelings and be deceived. They will also encounter many difficulties and will be questioned about who is not worthy of whom. A few examples are also problematic. Those people say that other people don’t like themselves because they have a disability, but there are many other factors that affect others’ impression of you.”
"As for the last discussed mental illness that will cause emotional tragedies, I think that mental illness will affect people's emotional judgments, but it is not the disease that causes the tragedy in the end but the correct concept, which is the bottom line of a person's life. Overcome physical or psychological barriers to reach happiness and cultivate the correct self-awareness. If you are in a state of self-denial every day, I just feel that I don’t want to or dare, then it’s naturally unworthy..."
Qiao Lan played the cards completely inconsistent, and even Ji Su did not expect that Qiao Lan would not go in the direction he expected.
He originally wanted to take the opportunity to make Qiao Lan sober and let Qiao Lan understand that there was no relationship between him and Tan Mo, and no one would support him. As a result, Qiao Lan couldn't get in.
He suddenly didn't understand, what kind of ecstasy soup Tan Mo had poured into Qiao Lan, which could make Qiao Lan paranoid to this point, and she could say black to white.
As a result, he was slightly surprised that after Qiao Lan had finished speaking, several people nodded in agreement, saying that Qiao Lan's words were reasonable, and the question itself was not quite right, especially when Roman was madly applauding Qiao Lan.
Ji Su frowned.
It shouldn't be like this.
It is not normal to have mental illness, so that abnormal people cannot have normal love. What is wrong with this view?
Anyone here has seen a person with a real mental illness, who knows better than him the tragedy that such a person can cause, and who can give advice to the country and who will not, each is just a matter of fact.
Someone feels that today’s discussion is full of unspeakable smell of gunpowder. Qiao Lan’s speech is obviously aimed at Ji Su, but Ji Su said nothing at the end, just let everyone go back and no one wrote it. An experience will be handed in at that time.
Qiao Lan returned home, staring at the group file sent on the computer, and didn't want to write a word of irritability.
She wanted to ask Ji Su to understand, and to find out if it was what she thought, but there was no basis for it. What if Ji Su had grasped something and knew Tan Mo's secret.
Tan Mo came in from outside and asked what she was doing. Qiao Lan quickly crossed the group file, "I was thinking about how to tell the president about leaving the club."
What is entangled, there is actually an easier way.
Just quit. After quitting, there will be no chance to meet with Ji Su again, nor will it be mixed with the right and wrong in the club. Regardless of whether Ji Su is intentional or unintentional, you don't have to worry about anything as long as you quit.
Tan Mo reached out from Qiao Lan and hugged the person across the chair. After a long silence, "Did you encounter something?"
"No," Qiao Lan said, "I just think I prefer staying with you than going to a club."
Tan Mo just wanted to rub someone into his arms for a moment, and called her lowly in Qiao Lan's ear.
"Yeah," Qiao Lan responded.
"We will get married after graduation, OK."
Qiao Lan smiled, "It doesn’t have to be graduation. I think about it, girls’ legal age for marriage is 20, so I can get married by the third year. Oh no, boys’ legal age is 22, my boyfriend I’m younger than me, so I’m still waiting for graduation."
Tan Mo: "..."
Suddenly I really hate that I am younger than Qiao Lan.
Why is he only 18 years old now?
Why is the legal marriage age so unfair for men and women?
Tan Mo picked up someone who had deliberately mistreated from the chair, and led the person into the bedroom amid Qiao Lan's exclamation.
close the door.
Settle accounts.
Two days later, the various members of the psychology agency began to hand in their homework. Ji Su casually looked at the emails, and finally moved to the emails sent by Qiao Lan.
As soon as he opened the email, Ji Su froze in his chair.
He failed to wait for Qiao Lan's homework, but waited for an application to withdraw from the club.
Qiao Lan’s e-mail is quite satisfactory. It may be copied and pasted from the Internet. The e-mail said that she was under too much learning pressure and could not take care of the affairs of the community. Although I am sorry but there is no way. I also ask the president to agree.
Things once again moved in a direction that Ji Su hadn't expected, and Ji Su finally felt that he seemed too calm before.
He did so much, trying to make Qiao Lan understand, but Qiao Lan didn't understand anything at all, and didn't even know that she liked her.
Ji Su stared at the e-mail for a long time, then turned off the computer and took out his mobile phone, and dialed Qiao Lan's number.
Qiao Lan just finished class, glanced at her phone, and answered the phone without too much surprise.
"Why quit the club suddenly?" Ji Su asked over there.
"Senior, I have written very clearly in the email."
Ji Su frowned irritably, "Needless to say, what I said is the real reason, and if I didn't guess wrong, it was because of your boyfriend."
"It's my fault to quit midway," Qiao Lan sincerely apologized, "but the school does not have a rule not to withdraw from the club. As for why I want to quit, it has nothing to do with the senior, I can choose not to answer."
After a long silence there, he finally said,
"Qiao Lan, I think we need to talk."