I am not interested in money anymore

"The Gu family used to be a prominent family? Real or fake?" Su Chen asked in surprise.

Gu Qingya casually said: "Should it? I heard my dad say it, but the details are not clear. But what if it is? Isn't it what it used to be? The famous family is already in the past!

"Yes! Ahem! It's too far. Daughter-in-law, Xiaoyu is not young anymore. Have you thought about her future?"

Gu Qingyu's pretty face wrinkled slightly."Xiaoyu is only seventeen? The college entrance examination will be taken next year. It is too early to think about the future, right?

Su Chen shook his head."It's not too early! The college entrance examination is a major turning point in life. Yes, grades are the most important thing, but for a child, there are actually more important things than college entrance examination results!"

"What?" Gu Qingya asked curiously.

"interest!"

"interest?"

"That's right! A child's personal interests determine the direction of his application after the college entrance examination, and this direction can actually determine his life's fate.

Nowadays, many parents' requirements for their children are performance first. Before the college entrance examination, apart from letting children study hard, they did not pay attention to the cultivation of children's interest in personal skills.So that when a child fills in for a volunteer after the college entrance examination, it is like a headless fly, without even a basic direction. He can only say that when he hears which profession is good for employment or easy to make money, he fills it blindly, without thinking about himself. Are you interested in this major, and can you delve into it!

So after entering the university, these students find that they are not interested in the major they choose, and can't learn it at all. Even if they barely enter, they will have a strong sense of rejection, which will eventually lead to mediocre grades or after graduation Change jobs.Once he changes jobs, his four years of college will basically be abolished, and the future will become bleak.

It's not that I am alarmist. In fact, there are not only graduates like our country, but they also make up the majority.

This is the consequence of blindly choosing a major after the college entrance examination.

So I think that for the training of children, academic performance is important, but interest and ideals are even more important.We don't ask her to understand her own interests or make any hope.As long as she can recognize her ideal and is willing to work hard for it, then our goal will be achieved.

Even after cultivating children's interests and ideals, it helps to improve academic performance.Because when a person has no ideals, his learning is blind, passive, and passionless. Even if he works hard, he will get half the result with half the effort!Once a child has her own goals and ideals, then she will study hard for her ideals, which is equivalent to having a subjective will. Her learning goals will no longer be blind, but will be full of passion. The learning attitude will make reading and learning much easier, more efficient, and achieve the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort!"

Su Chen's words are by no means general words, but the experience gained from his personal experience and the lessons of blood and tears.

When he was young, he completed middle and high school due to support from well-wishers. However, at that time, in addition to studying, he was working to earn money. He had no time to think about anything else. This also led to his high grades in the college entrance examination, but he was filling in volunteers. I chose the wrong major.It turned out that when he was in college, he realized that not only was his professional knowledge super difficult, but it was also difficult to find a job.

This led to Su Chen passively slowing down when he was in college, graduating with a mediocre grade. After that, he was lucky and succeeded in entering a company. In the end, because he really couldn't take any interest in his professional knowledge, he was bored with work every day. In the middle, and the boss is a vampire, Su Chen resigned in a rage.

Then he remained unemployed, and finally he was forced to be helpless. A dignified college graduate, he finally delivered a takeaway.

I have to say that it was really a choice, ruining Su Chen's life.If he didn't encounter the system later, he would probably be abolished in his entire life. Not to mention marrying a wife and having children, it would be nice if he could support himself for a lifetime!

Thinking of this topic, Su Chen really had something to say.

And Gu Qingya was also surprised by Su Chen's words.It’s not that Su Chen’s words are astonishing. In fact, the truths that Su Chen said are all bad things. Basically, anyone who has been to college can understand it. However, truth is truth and reality is reality. A truth can be integrated into reality.

What surprised Gu Qingya, Su Chen actually said so many great truths today, he has been in contact with Su Chen for so long, is it the first time he has seen Su Chen so sentimental?

"Husband?" Gu Qingya was a little worried, wondering what Su Chen had experienced.

Su Chen returned to his senses and couldn't help but laugh."Hey, you don't have to worry about me. No matter what I used to be, it will be fine for me now. Do you think I still have these troubles?

"Um..." Gu Qingya thought about it, and was also happy.

Well, with Su Chen's current conditions, there is no need to worry about anything.It can be said that all of Su Chen's sentimentality now is hypocritical.

"Husband, I thought about it, you are right. But you also know that not every family has the conditions to create the ideal conditions for their children!"

Indeed, if you want to have a firm ideal, you must have personal experience. Only after personal experience can you strengthen your heart.Otherwise, if you rely solely on imagination, it will be difficult to cultivate your ideals.

But it is precisely this kind of experience that not every family has the conditions for their children to experience it.

For example, the ideal of a child is to be a corporate executive, and he likes to sit in the office and give advice.Unless there is a company in the family, it is impossible for children of ordinary families to personally experience what it is like to be a company executive.

Maybe he just got the feeling from the Internet and thought it was cool to be a company executive.But if you don't experience it personally, you can never prove that he really likes it.Because every profession has its pros and cons.It’s really cool to sit in the office and give pointers, but not everyone can adapt to and endure things like handling business, managing subordinates, and intrigue with opponents.

Therefore, there is no difference between such a false ideal and blindly filing a volunteer.

Su Chen knew this too, so he just lay on the bed and talked to his wife, instead of making this view public.

"I know you have to think about it, but my daughter-in-law, we can’t care about other people’s children, but we can’t care about Xiaoyu. Other people’s homes don’t have the conditions, but we have what we want, no matter what Xiaoyu wants to try, I can think about it. How to let her take advantage of the summer vacation to experience it in person!

There is not much else in our family, just more money!"