Physician’s Odyssey
Chapter 1389 You Are Actually Unhappy
"Girl, are you crazy?" The old lady widened her eyes and looked at Sang Xueying in amazement, "Who can anyone let her husband have children with other women?"
Sang Xueying didn't dare to look directly at her mother-in-law, and said in a low voice: "In fact, this situation is very common now. If one spouse can't have a child, then use surrogacy. If the man can't give birth, then get an IVF. The woman can't give birth. , Then use the IVF method to find a female surrogate. This is also an explanation to the Xie family."
Sang Xueying's tears rolled from the corners of her eyes, and fell to the ground.
In fact, she and Xie Kairong had done IVF, but for some reason they could not succeed, and the doctor could not explain the reason.After all, the success probability of IVF is inherently low.
Sang Xueying is not too young now, and as she gets older, she is not suitable for IVF.Before the age of thirty-five, the chance of a woman successfully giving birth to a baby through IVF is 30 to 60%, and the chance of giving birth to a baby after the age of 35 is only 4.5%.In other words, for every one hundred couples undergoing IVF, fewer than five can successfully conceive.
The old lady was touched, and she sighed that her daughter-in-law was too simple and kind, and she even had this idea. She gently held her daughter-in-law’s hand and whispered: "Surrogacy is not desirable, although the test tube is used. The method of the baby, but after all, someone else gave birth in October. Sooner or later, you will regret it! And the troubles are endless. It is better for you to adopt an orphan in the orphanage."
Sang Xueying wiped away her tears and shook her head: "That's not okay. The adopted orphan does not have the blood of Xie's family, and if the surrogate is a surrogate, it is also a combination of the two of us. In addition, we can choose a girl with good education and good health..."
The old lady waved her hand vigorously and sighed: "Xueying, this thought must be stopped. Because this involves not only you, but also the reputation of Kairong. He carries the hope of the Xie family. If someone exposes it later, he will Influence his career."
Sang Xueying gritted her teeth and said: "Mom, if it doesn't work, then I will divorce Kairong!"
The old lady shook her head and stomped her feet: "Silly boy, how can you think that way? If you get a divorce, it would be too unfair to you, let alone with an open personality, will he agree?"
Sang Xueying joked with her husband several times in private. Every time Xie Kairong glared, she firmly disagreed, "Mom, you have to convince him. Marriage is not a matter of two people. He is the eldest son of the Xie family. He shoulders the responsibility of inheriting incense. He loves me, so he was so determined to get married that year; I love him, so I can’t be so selfish now."
The old lady sighed heavily. She didn't have too many faults with her daughter-in-law, but there was no child between the husband and wife. She always felt that there was a lack of important connections. Seeing that Sang Xueying had this idea, she was right. The wife is even more respectful.
The old lady sighed softly: "Since you mentioned divorce, then I can consider surrogacy, because if you change to a daughter-in-law, you will definitely be better off."
"Mom, thank you for understanding me." Sang Xue hugged her mother-in-law with tears in her eyes.
Every family has their own troubles. According to the status of the Xie family, there is no shortage of material and spiritual wealth, but they are eager for a new life.
The door rang and the secretary's voice came from outside, "Expert Su is here!"
Sang Xueying hurriedly said: "Mom, I'll talk to you later, Kai Rong found an expert for me, who is a Chinese medicine expert of the Central Health Commission, and wants to show me the disease.
The old lady sighed that doctors and experts were not invited, but the conclusion was the same every time. Sang Xueying had no problems with her body, which was really puzzling.
However, today Sang Xueying was talking to herself. Since her daughter-in-law took the initiative to bring up surrogacy, she had reasons to do it. Even if Xie Kairong might not be willing, Sang Xueying persuaded her son to be obedient.Although not born of Sang Xueying, the blood of the Xie family will compensate Sang Xueying in other ways in the future.
Moreover, since ancient times, there has been a situation where the family adopted a child, and the couple gave birth to their own child soon.My son and daughter-in-law are not sick, just lack of timing.
The old lady said, "Well, since I am an expert in traditional Chinese medicine, it must be a bit capable. I'll go take a look with you."
The old lady and Sang Xue went downstairs to greet him, and saw a twenty-something young man standing in the living room, carrying a medical box on his shoulder, wearing a robe full of antique colors, and standing next to him who looked as good as his daughter-in-law. Young woman.
The old lady suddenly felt a drum in her heart, why is she so unreliable?
The old lady has also seen some markets. Any member of the TCM expert group is not an old man over fifty years old, and a young man like Su Tao is a TCM expert. She would definitely not believe it.
The old lady walked up to Su Tao, looked up and down, and curiously said: "Are you that Chinese medicine expert?"
Sang Xueying guessed her mother-in-law's thoughts and quickly introduced: "Mom, that's right, he is the Chinese medicine expert Kairong invited over."
The old lady spoke quickly and said flatly: "Why don't I believe it? Now the Chinese medicine experts are so young?"
Su Tao was not angry, but smiled faintly. He took out the expert certificate from his pocket and handed it to the old lady. "Nowadays, there are a lot of swindlers. This is a certificate issued to me by the China Insurance Commission. Body, you have a look."
The old lady took out her presbyopic glasses from the bag she carried, and looked at it for a long while, but she couldn't see the flaws, and said lightly: "Still a Chinese medicine doctor? All right, then you can see my daughter-in-law!"
Su Tao saw that the old lady’s eyes were still full of misgivings, and he had no special thoughts. Traditional Chinese medicine experts are a golden sign in the eyes of many people, but in many cases they will not be useful, mainly because Su Tao has the skills that do not match the medical skills. Age, if you are twenty or thirty years older, is more valuable, otherwise it will become a suspicious burden.
"I will give you a pulse, please stretch out your right hand!" Su Tao told Sang Xueying.
The secretary is very eye-catching, knowing that this involves Sang Xueying's privacy, and quietly walked out of the living room and walked to the courtyard to wait.
Sang Xue was also happy when she fell, placing her arm on the jade vein pillow.Su Tao finished her pulse, and then took a closer look at her tongue...
Su Tao put away the pulse pillow and did not speak.
Sang Xueying couldn't hold back the curiosity in her heart, and said in a low voice, "Expert Su, do you see any problems?"
Su Tao asked, "You have been checked by many doctors. What is the answer they give you?"
Although Sang Xueying felt that Su Tao's question to herself was a bit weird, she still patiently said, "The doctor gave me a detailed and comprehensive examination, and all the physical indicators are within the normal range. In conclusion, I am not sick. As for the inability to get pregnant, they do not know the reason."
The old lady also said: "I have also seen her an illness by a health care expert from the Provincial Health Department. She said that she was tired because of work. Is it related to this?"
Su Tao and Sang Xue said, "It has nothing to do with work. If I guessed correctly, you should be a stewardess?"
"Yes!" Sang Xueying glanced at the secretary subconsciously.
The secretary shook her head, implying that she hadn't mentioned her occupation.
Inferring a person's occupation or character, the first thing to observe is the state of his hands, nails, whether there are cocoons, the position of the cocoons, his knees, shoes, steps, and cuffs.Because these hands and feet are the most frequent parts of our contact with the outside world, and they also best reflect our work.
In addition, it starts from a temperament.Temperament is difficult to explain what it is, in short, it is a feeling of popularity.There is a classic scene in Holmes, that is, he inferred that Watson was a military doctor and the courier was a navy colonel.It's all based on a person's temperament, which can also be said to be the sum of a person's manners and personality for a certain vocational training.
For a flight attendant, she has a set of unique vocational training, so it is the easiest job to distinguish. For example, when talking to people, she will subconsciously smile and tilt her head slightly.
From Sang Xueying's skin condition and internal organs, it can be seen that she often travels long distances, so that the liver condition in her body is very different from that of ordinary people.
The most obvious feature is that the flight attendants must apply sunscreen primer when they work, even on long-haul planes at night.Airplanes fly at high altitudes, even if they are only indoors, the UV index is still many times higher than that of the ground. If sun protection is neglected, it will cause aging or stains over time, so most flight attendants have the habit of sun protection.
However, applying too much sunscreen will cause some negative effects on the skin, and it will be exposed in the face of experienced Chinese medicine practitioners like Su Tao.
Su Tao said indifferently: "There is nothing wrong with your body."
The old lady showed disappointment on her face and sighed: "It's exactly the same as other doctors' conclusions! Do you want to call Kairong back to see if there is something wrong with his body?"
Su Tao smiled and shook his head, and continued: "You don't need to ask Secretary Xie to come back. Secretary Xie's physical condition has also been checked. People will lie, but the instrument will definitely not. Although Ms. Sang's body is fine, it does not represent her mentality. No problem. In Chinese medicine, psychological problems are very hidden and have a great impact on the body."
Sang Xue's face changed slightly, and she was surprised: "I have always felt very good and very happy. With a loving husband, a stable job, and a meticulous family, they are very tolerant to me."
Su Tao shook his head and sighed, and said seriously: "No, you are actually not happy at all."
"She feels unhappy, what does it have to do with whether she is pregnant?" the old lady asked strangely.
"If the physical indicators are normal, the only explanation is psychological. If I'm not wrong, Ms. Sang should have experienced a special event, so that after she got married, she was so stressed that she was afraid of having children." Su Tao looked at Sang Xueying and said seriously, "If you don't want to say, I can try to make some guesses, how about?"
Sang Xueying said calmly: "You speak up!"