Problematic Sister Fell In Love With Me
708 The third question
"Of course, this consciousness due to tension may be subconscious, and it is not surprising that you are not aware of it yourself."
"You say I am a patient, then tell me, where am I sick?" I admit that every sentence Xin Goji said made me irrefutable, but I still don't believe that I have any psychological problems.
Xin Goji squinted and smiled, "This requires you to answer my third question. I said that I have to give you a reasonable diagnosis after three questions."
I took off the hat that I didn’t take off even when I sat at the dining table. The cold air in the room seemed to lose its proper effect. I felt that the bandage around my head had been soaked in sweat, and the stitched wound was like salt. Drilling pain, numbness, and muscles involved in my face are all tight and wrinkled and stiff. "You ask."
"Your sister is Yuanyuan, is it? If you listen well, if it is, that is, hypothesis," Xin Goji asked: "In reality, back to the time when you were still single, you encountered this A girl, regardless of her name, appearance, personality, and even the voice of her talk, is exactly the same as your sister’s fate. The only difference from your sister is that she has no sibling relationship with you. Then, when such a girl, When you like you like your sister and pursue you, I want to know that you will still choose the girl you are now, that is, you have known you for five years. Shu Tong’s cousin, Miss Cheng, will you be your girlfriend? ?"
I was startled, but I didn't expect him to assume a girl, compared with Chu Yuan for a long time, and finally let me make a choice between'her' and tassel!
"If you want to answer again," Xin Goji reminded me: "No matter what your answer is, you have no chance to change it. I will only take your first answer as the standard. Remember me The premise of emphasis is'if','hypothesis', if there is such a girl, you have to imagine it yourself, imagine the situation that I hypothesized, and imagine it as reality."
It's not just me. This time, even Shu Tong and Xiao Ge Ge didn't have the intention to continue eating. A nervous, a curious, staring at me, waiting for my answer.
Xin Goji played around at noon, but this emphasis, unusual seriousness, made me hesitate. I think his emphasis must be purposeful, so I couldn't help but pay attention to his seemingly boring question, and then I Found that I didn't have the imagination he expected
"One is the girl who exists in the hypothesis, the other is a real person in reality, I think there is no comparability"
Shu Tong's and Xiao Ge's reactions were diametrically opposed. Xiao Ge's answer was a disappointment to me, and Shu Tong agreed.
I secretly breathed a sigh of relief, but I heard Xin Goji said sharply: "The reason why you can't make a comparison is precisely because you have made a comparison, right?"
A sigh in my heart, "What do you mean?"
"Indeed, there is no comparison between the people in the hypothesis and the real people in reality, because in reality there can be no two people who are exactly the same-you didn’t use the hypothesis'she' to do with your girlfriend Compare, but use "She" to compare with your sister, right?"
Xiao Ge's awakened look, Shu Tong's surprised face, and I, the blood red face.
This kid is terrible!It turned out that the purpose of his question was not to see whether I would choose'her' or tassel, but whether I could accept his'hypothesis'!
Xin Goji expressed his expression and said, "Psychology believes that the so-called emotion is an attitude experience produced by whether objective things meet the needs. What is an attitude experience? To put it bluntly is my own feeling. We Chinese have a few words The old saying, what is "radish and green vegetables, each has its own love", and what "lovers see Xishi" is actually the same reason. You like her, she is unique, but people are a kind of emotional creatures, different for each People or things will produce different emotions. For example, if you like to travel, then the attraction of climbing the Great Wall and visiting the Forbidden City may be the same. If you like shopping, then the temptation to buy clothes and cosmetics is also the same. However, if Plus a prerequisite? For example, time is limited, you can only go to the Great Wall and the Forbidden City, there is not enough money in your pocket, you have to choose one of two clothes and cosmetics, there will definitely be comparisons, there will be trade-offs, this The reason is the same in feelings, even if it is also friendship, affection or love, there will be some subtle differences. For two different women, you may love someone more deeply and love someone more deeply. , Even if you love as deeply, the reason for falling in love and the way to love are not necessarily the same. The reason you like her is her pride and her tenderness and tenderness to you, the reason you like her is her pitiful, excited You have a desire to protect and make you want to be tender and considerate-as long as there are two different people, there must be comparability in a certain way, because each person is unique,'radish and vegetables have their own "Love" can also have another explanation, that is, two kinds of love, but each has its own reason to fall in love with it, if there is really no way to make a comparison, then it may only be two identical Is "unique", the reason for love is the same as the degree of love, how can you make a choice? So you can’t compare the hypothetical'she' with your girlfriend's, because'her' is not Exists, does not hold, and'she' does not exist, does not hold, precisely because you used'she' to compare with your sister, am I right?"
The things Xin Goji said seemed esoteric, but they were easy to understand, but because of the speed of the speech, Shu Tong and Xiao Ge were obviously unable to keep up with their thoughts. They worked hard to think and chew. The response was still very slow, and I , I wish I could not understand what he was saying
I did not answer Xin Qili, in fact, it is equivalent to the default.
"The "prerequisites" I just mentioned is the key to making trade-offs. If there is no restriction of "must make trade-offs", then naturally there is no need to compare the people or things I like. Even if there are so-called'prerequisites', people will try to deceive themselves to choose to forget, or else they will simply become a rule-breaking existence and override the secular ethics. This is human nature-mistakes that they think are inevitable Most of them are a certain kind of emotion or the inevitable development of emotions," Xin Goji analyzed very accurately: "You denied the establishment of "her" because of emotional disapproval? In the three laws of the multiverse, there is " "Everything is three" is a saying that there are always three possibilities, three situations, or three forms of things. I like this statement, so I also love the number "three", the love brother plot of fate It is already very obvious that the evidence is conclusive and there is no need to do any further verification. So, what about you? Will you choose to accept or reject her feelings? As a psychologist, after understanding your situation, this I have to figure it out first. In fact, even if you are not a doctor, but just a bystander and insider, the first thing to think about will be the result. The most curious thing is how you will respond. Your sister’s brother-in-law complex, do you have the same feelings as your sister to you? I’m afraid you don’t even know that when Shu Tong consulted me, the most worrying issue was not that fate. There is no need for any proof of the brotherhood complex, but how do you face a relationship like Yuanyuan, in other words, she is worried about what kind of ending the Yuanxiong brotherhood complex will eventually evolve into-sibling love Established or not. Judgment of this result is not painful. Whether the brother-sister relationship is established depends on the attitude of both parties. The attitude of your sister is already very clear. The key lies in your attitude, that is, do you also have a love-girl complex? The answer is nothing but three possibilities:'Yes' no','maybe'."
I’m glad I can’t see my expression, otherwise I really don’t know how to face myself, and my voice trembles, saying, “Since you have already characterized me as a patient, prove that you think I’m there, right? "
"Yes." Xin Goji gave his conclusion without any tact.
[Ps: For life, I have to endure some disgusting things. I have to talk scams and scams, the face of the vain and the evil, the ridicule of Fenghuaxueyue, and the singing of ghosts and crying wolf. I can’t calm down and hide at home. Tonight, I'm sorry everyone, review.