Problematic Sister Fell In Love With Me

"What about then?" Xin Goji took Ge Ge's half-eaten ice cream and said lightly: "Are they related by blood?"

Shu Tongdao: "Even if there is no blood relationship, they are brothers and sisters, legally"

"Law and emotion are two different things. Law is dead. People are alive. Law has no emotion. If you speak of emotion, it is not law. If you have emotion, you are not a person without emotion." Xin Goji said: "I am a psychological counselor. The teacher, not the lawyer, nor the priest, the relationship between brothers and sisters who are not related by blood, is not common in this society, but it is not uncommon. I have said before, so I am willing to accept today’s consultation. The reason for Yu is very personal. It is because the relationship between a pair of sisters and brothers that I know has also generated feelings between your brothers and sisters. Do you know why I want to go to the United States to study psychology?"

Not only Shu Tong and I didn’t know, Xiao Ge also shook his head blankly, Xin went to dig a large spoonful of ice cream, because the fingertips stretched, the spoonful of ice cream was obviously shaking, he bit the back molar, He said bitterly: "Because I want to break them apart, but in addition to the so-called secular gaze, in law, there is no good reason to support me!"

The buddy pulls down the black line in his forehead-this servant seems to say something disrespectful that is quite extraordinary!

"The law defines your kind of sibling relationship as a pseudo-blood, and there is no relatively clear rule on whether the sibling or sibling of the pseudo-blood relationship can marry," Xin Qi While eating ice cream in a big mouth, Ji said angrily: "So far, whether the proposed blood relative can get married is still a relatively controversial topic. Some people think that the law clearly stipulates that only direct blood relatives and three generations are not allowed to marry. The siblings within the lineage, and the siblings who are not related to blood are obviously not included, so they can get married, and some people think that the law defines the proposed blood relationship as,'There was no blood relationship or direct blood relationship, but The legally determined relatives with the same blood relatives', that is to say, the legal status of the proposed blood relatives is the same as that of the immediate blood relatives, so marriage is against the law, but some people are like my pair of friends, When I insisted on the second point of view and persuaded them to break up on the grounds that the blood relationship is also a blood relationship, the two guys ran me to the United States in this way of coping-lifting the so-called legal definition Is it legal to control the blood relationship? Huh, don’t say me, even the most authoritative psychologist or legal expert can’t say that Xiaoyuanyuan is a mental illness. With this sentence, she can Choke all the experts."

"Relieved?" Xiao Ge tranced and said: "I understand, you mean, if they are stepchildren, then if the parents divorce, their artificial blood relationship will no longer exist, and if the child relationship is adopted, as long as one party It is also untenable to dissolve the adoption relationship with the parents and the other's artificial blood relationship, right?"

Xin Goji nodded reluctantly, "Yes, as long as they don't care about the vision of those around them, it can be said that there is no restriction or hindrance."

The buddy almost yelled and shouted, so that was the case, and I couldn't help but hit the table fiercely with the fist in my hat, "Do you mean to divorce my parents?!"

"You mean, do you really plan to get married?" Xin went to the question and asked me a big red face, Xiao Ge was excited, and Shu Tong straightened his teeth.

"I mean, your suggestion is more like encouraging me or my sister"

"There is no encouragement, no encouragement. I am just emphasizing that it is reasonable and unreasonable. First of all, I want to tell you that the "prerequisites" that you think your brothers and sisters cannot love and marry do not exist or can be offset, so you don’t need to What are the psychological pressures on the so-called moral, ethical, and taboo things? As for whether you honestly accept your sister’s feelings, or continue to guard your commitment to your girlfriend, this is not something I have to worry about, and I can’t control it. , Secondly, "Xin Goji looked at me inexplicably and asked, "Even if you plan to accept your sister's feelings and marry her in the future, you won't need your parents to divorce? Is this necessary?"

This question asked me in a rhetorical manner, but I was fooled, and looked puzzledly at Xiaoge, "I wasn't talking about stepchildren just now"

"Wait," Xin Weiji interrupted before I finished, "Stepchildren?"

As soon as I was startled, Xin Qiji and Shu Tong looked at each other, both showing a blank face, and then asked me in unison: "Is your sister not a adopted daughter?"

"What?!" This time, his face was blank and it was me

Shu Tong grabbed my neck collar excitedly, shook it vigorously, and asked Xin to sigh with cries: "Will he be tortured by you?!"

"You're stupid!" I lifted Shu Tong's hand and said with air: "Who told you that Yuanyuan is the adopted daughter?"

"Don't Susu often say that you and Yuanyuan are siblings without blood relationship? Haven't you denied it?"

"But I didn't say that she was a adopted daughter, she was my stepmother"

"I asked Yuanyuan's head teacher to get a copy of her household registration page, which clearly stated that the relationship with the head of the household is a foster daughter."

Account page?I suddenly remembered that when I first met Dong Xiaoye, it was when she came to my house to check the account. At that time, under her inquiry, I first noticed that the relationship with the head of the household on Chu Yuan’s account page was indeed not ' 'Stepdaughter', but'adopted daughter', and the marital relationship between the stepmother and the grandfather is not the same, the grandfather is'remarried', and the stepmother is'married'

I don’t know the past of the stepmother and Chu Yuan. I only know that the stepmother had suffered a lot for the little fart before marrying the old man. For the biological father of the little fart, the stepmother never mentioned it, probably because I haven’t seen my father, and I don’t have any emotional basis. With the over-indulgence of the old man, Chu Yuan, who had a strange personality, would never be curious about her biological father. Over time, we have formed a kind of By tacit understanding, everyone has forgotten the stories of the past, and cherishes the present family incomparably. I have gradually lost interest in all the things before the stepmother married the old man.

The stepmother said that apart from me and my grandfather, she and Chu Yuan would have no other relatives.

The stepmother is very beautiful, and Chu Yuan is also very beautiful. I have always believed that only a beautiful mother can give birth to such a demon daughter who is better than blue.

Adopted daughter?Isn't Chu Yuan born of stepmother?

I don’t believe it, I don’t believe it!

"Whether it's a stepdaughter or a adopted daughter. This is pure family affair. We are outsiders, so it's inconvenient to ask more," Xin Goji said. "As a psychologist, I can only help you so much and analyze your feelings. , Analyze your psychology, help you understand yourself, help you open your heart, face yourself frankly, as for how to face this relationship, as for what you want to fight for or sacrifice for this relationship, it is your own Choices, what I want you to know is that no matter which choice you make, it is reasonable. Don’t put too much shackles on yourself. Those are unnecessary and unreasonable. Worry, sadness, When you can’t afford it alone, you may wish to share it with a trusted friend. Your pour and their comfort will make your psychological stress be released and relieved in a healthy way, which is beneficial to both body and mind.”

I smiled and squeezed out two words, "Thank you"

Dr. Xin was really amateurish enough, he couldn’t hold back, gossip: "Whether Yuanyuan was born by your stepmother or adopted by an elderly couple, you may wish to ask your parents, as a family, I think you still have the right to know of"

"Can I ask you another question?" I ignored the gossip of Xin Dingji, but went back to gossip him.

"Ask me why I am so enthusiastic and stay in Beijing for a few more days to accept your psychological consultation?"

I nodded and was used to his guessing my thoughts, "To be precise, I am puzzled by your analysis results. This is also the case for your friends. Look at your attitude, and the relationship between them is Very disgusted, you also said that going to the United States to study psychology and enrich your knowledge is to dismantle them. But why did you meet us similar to them, instead of trying to let us give up, you told me this feeling instead Is it reasonable to produce and develop?"