Chapter 1664 - 1086: Confiding (2)
"When it comes to matters of the heart, outsiders have no say. If you feel this person is right, be with him. If not, then break up. It’s your personal freedom, no one has the right to interfere.
As for Wang Meifeng coming to see you, that was her fault from the start. You don’t need to feel guilty about what you did, and I certainly don’t mind. I’m not hiding anything from you, before you guys came, Wang Meifeng did indeed ask for my help.
She said she wanted to be with that guy named Loo Ping, hoping I could talk to you and let you fulfill her wish. I immediately refused her. How could such a thing be done?
So, in this matter, you don’t need to worry about my thoughts. I can tell you very clearly that I have no opinion on this matter.
All you need to do is keep your eyes wide open and see if this man is suitable for you. If it’s your happiness, hold onto it. If not, let go. No one can force you."
After a moment’s hesitation, Lin Chuxia looked at Chuxia, "Do you think... he’s not good?"
"I can’t really feel anything, having only met once and not even spoken. How could I know if he’s good or not?" Chuxia laughed and waved her hand, "This is your personal relationship matter. You really don’t need to worry about others, just use your own heart to observe, see, and understand."
"Actually..." Lin Chuxia paused and sighed, "I know you don’t like hearing me say these things, but I’m still forcing you to listen because I have doubts in my heart.
Today was the first time I faced a situation with three people together. I found that Loo Ping’s attitude towards Wang Meifeng wasn’t what he had assured me before.
Of course, I’m not hoping he’d outright ignore Wang Meifeng, but shouldn’t he show some distinction? Now I feel like, knowing that Wang Meifeng is your cousin and that you have a good relationship, he seems a bit swayed.
I don’t know if my feeling is right or not, so I’m forcing you to listen because, apart from you, I really don’t know who else to talk to. If I told my family, they would think I’m just overthinking things.
If I told my friends or classmates, they’d think I’m showing off, so..." she sighed and smiled bitterly, "I really hope you can help me sort this out."
"You’re really putting me in a difficult spot..." Chuxia spread her hands helplessly, "I don’t know Loo Ping, so how can I help you sort this out? If you have doubts, just observe more carefully to avoid future regrets."
"Exactly, when unsure, don’t just agree casually..." Luo Xiaoqiong put down the child and looked at her seriously, "It’s a lifelong matter. If a woman chooses the wrong man, it can really ruin her life.
No matter how great your conditions are, once divorced, it’s hard to find a satisfactory match again. It’s not about thinking negatively, but societal norms often lead to such outcomes.
So, before marriage, you must keep your eyes wide open. Never compromise just because you’re getting older and others are pressuring you."
"I know..." Lin Chuxia nodded, "I think so too. It’s just, I don’t know if what I see is real or not, sigh..."
"Do you like him?" Luo Xiaoqiong asked her seriously.
"Like?" After pondering for a while, Lin Chuxia shook her head, "I’m not sure."
"Let me give you an example: If you know now that Loo Ping is only with you because being involved with the Qiao Family makes him more significant, but eventually finds that Wang Meifeng could help him more, would you be heartbroken or just disappointed?"
After thinking for a long while, Lin Chuxia said, "He performed so well before, my family already likes him a lot, and I started having hopes for the future. If I find out he was deceiving me all along for his own gain, I think I would be particularly disappointed, and maybe a little heartbroken too."
"That’s good..." Luo Xiaoqiong breathed a sigh of relief, "This feeling suggests you agreed to be with him because you needed a companion, not because you particularly liked him. A woman, as long as she’s not wholeheartedly in love, can still see the truth in a man. Otherwise, even if he’s deceiving you, you wouldn’t notice it."
"That makes some sense. Seems like you know a lot..." Chuxia looked at Luo Xiaoqiong amusedly, "During your few months in the Capital City taking classes, were you studying psychology?"
"You got that right..." Luo Xiaoqiong nodded very seriously, "I really hope to become a psychologist in the future. Didn’t you say it? With my carelessness, performing surgery would be terrifying, and caring for people even worse. So I’ve thought it through, a psychologist doesn’t need to handle knives or care for people physically, just needs to understand people’s minds and counsel them well. It suits me."
Chuxia: "..." Someone seems to think becoming a psychologist is too simple?
Fortunately, the other woman named Lin was very supportive, looking at Luo Xiaoqiong with approval: "What you analyzed just now was spot on. You’ll definitely become an amazing psychologist in the future!"
Chuxia rolled her eyes speechlessly: "Don’t flatter her too much, she might forget who she is."
For the rest of the time, Lin Chuxia seemed quite preoccupied and occasionally glanced outside, clearly thinking about what Loo Ping was doing... (To be continued. If you like this work, feel free to visit Qidian (qidian.com) to vote for recommendations and monthly tickets. Your support is my greatest motivation. Mobile users, please read at m.qidian.com.)