The Jade Emperor Told Me to Live-stream!

If you want to pursue a girl, you must first establish a good relationship with her friends.

This is true, but... how to put it...

Some things are not as simple and straightforward as they seem.

It's like you have made various plans before going out camping, but the reality is that there will always be some unexpected accidents. Your plan is good, but it is not very close to reality.

On the surface, there is nothing wrong with this strategy, starting with the people next to the goddess bit by bit, surrounding them layer by layer, so that the goddess has no retreat.

However, know that girls are not the same as boys.

Boys are generally more open-minded and more concerned about faces. They are usually embarrassed to do anything together when they are together.

And smart boys generally don't do things that damage each other's feelings.

So, normally speaking, boys in a dormitory have good feelings, but girls are different...

How should I put it? Actually, Mo Ming started from a boy's point of view. He also couldn't understand the attitude of getting along between girls. He looked very nice with you last moment, but in the next moment...

Mo Ming remembered that when he was in college, he met several classmates in a girl’s dormitory. They were doing papers in groups of two. They had agreed that they would be together in the afternoon, but they didn’t know what was going on. One of them was a girl. Suddenly left his roommate and went with the classmates in other dormitories...

It's embarrassing, depressing, and... unpredictable...

There are many such things. He remembers a roommate’s girlfriend in college also had similar things. It was clear that he was fine before, but suddenly he quarreled inexplicably...

Obviously, the two girls who had a good relationship before, turned their faces really fast...

What does that mean?

In other words, in the eyes of boys, the goddess' roommates may have a good relationship with the goddess, but the truth is that the relationship between girls and girls is very delicate...

Girls' feelings are very delicate, but it is precisely because of this delicate, that their emotions are easily fluctuated, and it is easier to perceive some external things.

It is precisely because of this that women and women usually have their own careful thoughts.

Don't think that this is just a scene in those TV dramas. In fact, there are many such women in reality, and they are intrigue with everyone. Generally, starting from their teenage years, many girls have gradually started to have this kind of psychology.

Although it is not true to do those evil things, but generally they will accept it on the surface.

For example, one of the five or six roommates in a dormitory suddenly bought something or something, and groaned in the dorm. At this time, her roommate usually has three behaviors:

The first kind is totally unfeeling. I don't move at all. Generally, girls have this kind of behavior, which only shows that the relationship is not good.

The second is to listen to you on the surface, and either feel nothing in your heart, or just ha ha ha.This is generally to see the roommate very thoroughly, not to have a relationship with it, it is not easy to tear his skin, but I am very disdainful of it in my heart.

The third is to really flatter...

There can be these four kinds of people in a small dormitory, and four or five people can have three kinds of performances when the pretenders are eliminated. It is conceivable how delicate the relationship between girls and girls is...

got it?

If you mess with the relationship at this time, it is really easy to be blacklisted...

Moreover, taking a step back, even if you find a roommate who has a good relationship with the goddess, it doesn't mean you can get closer. On the contrary, the opposite effect may occur.

For example, a girl sees a boy who has a good relationship with her good friend. If this girl is a normal person, what would you say to her?

She will definitely stay away!

why?

The reason is simple, she will definitely think that you are the boyfriend of her good friend, or you want to chase her good friend!

Under this circumstance, would a girl who has the correct three views take the initiative to lean on it?

Because she has to take care of her friendship with her good friends!

With this kind of thinking, the goddess will only treat you as an acquaintance, but it will only be an acquaintance, no matter what it is, she will never go further.

Even if you really participate in her life through her roommate's relationship, and go out to play with her, she will keep a psychological distance from you.

This is a kind of psychological rejection!

She has already drawn a white line in her heart to isolate you from the white line, and she will never allow herself to cross the white line half a step.

Normally, a boy chasing a girl, if a girl doesn't feel the boy, it's nothing, because feeling can be cultivated slowly.

But once you let this girl reject you psychologically, then wait for it to be done!

And if you show the desire to take this step, then it’s over. The girl is not a fool. You, a stranger, suddenly fights with your good friend so fiercely, and then stretches out your paw to her, what do you make her miss you?

Are you a scumbag?Eating the bowl and looking at the pot?Restless and guarding yourself?

Moreover, it will make her think that you are very dangerous and deliberate, and she will not approach you even more!

Of course, this is only Mo Ming's words. Many people take this kind of words that seem to be reasonable on the surface, but in fact, no one has ever practiced them as the most reasonable words and treat them as life strategies.

Moreover, there are many so-called "emotionalists" now...

They wantonly use various rhythms, equate feelings with money and material, distort human feelings, distort human hearts, and spread something that has never been confirmed, or just a small group of people blindly cats and ran into dead mice, just hitting them. , But there is no practical basis at all.

Not only that, these people also wantonly gather some believers, and spread in public some words that seem reasonable on the surface but are anti-human.

To put it bluntly, these people are no different from a group of swindlers. They are using these seemingly reasonable theories, but in fact they have no basis at all to deceive people's hearts and seek their own benefits.

Mo Ming has always felt that it is stupid to give life to complicated people. Life should be simple and simple. Most of the problems in the world are found by human beings themselves.

For example, for a question that is clearly black and white, the answer is either right or wrong, but some people just want to drag the incident into a gray area, giving people a mysterious answer that is neither right nor right.

People living in the world should be simple. Just like cultivation, they should be down-to-earth, step by step, and there will be rewards if you pay. Be a good person, practice slowly, accumulate strength, and one day you will always meet Reach the dream state.