Reality is reality, reality is not a TV series.

Human emotions in reality are far more complicated than those in TV dramas.

The themes in the TV series are based on reality, but they beautify the human emotions in reality. That is to say, this kind of beautification describes people's inner activities, emotional thoughts and emotions too simply and too pale!

For example, in a TV series, those children may go through one or two special events, or get along for a long time, and they can naturally develop feelings, but in reality it is not that simple.

In real life, if you are not his parents or his parents, even if he really calls you father or mother, he will always be at a distance from you.

It only depends on whether this barrier is manifested.

Mo Ming had seen several girls before, all in this kind of reorganization of the family. The mother died, and then the father found a stepmother. The stepmother is very good to the children, but this does not eliminate the barrier between the two.

In front of the stepmother, the girl will mostly appear very silent, do not speak much, and do not show a smile, but she will not show any indifference or alienation. It feels like... knowing you but only knowing you, no Will come closer to you.

Moreover, because of the existence of such an unrelated stepmother, the relationship between this girl and this family will probably become very embarrassing. She will feel alienated and abandoned, and she will gradually stay away from this family.

As for the stepmother, she wanted to marry the girl Zhang Luo and wanted to marry this girl.

Because he also felt that this feeling of getting along with his strange daughter was very embarrassing.

He originally came to this family for the girl's father, but now that he is embarrassed by the girl's existence, she is naturally uncomfortable.

This is reality, and reality will not be so beautiful.

After all, TV dramas are just a form of artistic expression, drawing materials from reality and beautifying reality.

The reorganization of families in reality is actually far more embarrassing than those on TV!

The most typical example is the relationship between Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming and his father.

In fact, according to the truth, Mo Ming's father is now Yan Qingcheng's stepfather, and the family has been reorganized for more than ten years, but Yan Qingcheng does not have much feelings for Mo Ming's father.

In fact, it can be seen that Yan Qingcheng has some father-daughter sentiments toward Mo Ming's father. With Yan Qingcheng's cold temperament, if she really has a bad relationship with someone, she won't bother to talk to him.

So from this point of view, Yan Qingcheng actually recognized Mo Ming's father more, and Yan Qingcheng did not object to Mo Ming's father treating her as a daughter.

But... if you really want to count, Yan Qingcheng and Mo Ming's father are not as strong as between normal father and daughter.

From this point, we can see how profound the estrangement between reorganized families is.

Even if their family has been through for more than ten years, it is just this way.

And this also includes many factors such as Mo Ming, his father's nature to talk and socialize, think about it, what kind of bird will become if you change to another staid man?

This gap is really deep into the blood and flesh.

Mo Ming's situation is quite special. In fact, according to Mo Ming's situation, he shouldn't care too much about bloodline issues.

Mo Ming was brought to the Yan family by his father since he was a child. It can be said that his mother is Yan Ningxue and his sister is Yan Qingcheng. He has no special memory of his biological mother. I don't know how many wives his father has.

And Yan Ningxue was very kind to Mo Ming and spoiled him in every way. Therefore, if there were no accidents, Mo Ming was actually more like Yan Ningxue's biological son, and the bloodline problem would not become a barrier in his heart.

but!

Note that it is "but"!

Where is "Mo Ming" located?

It's the Yan family!

Where is Yan's house?

The Yan family is a family of people surnamed Yan!

And what are you?

You are Mo Ming and your surname is Mo. From the moment you entered the Yan family, you were destined to be a different kind of this family!

You are not a member of the other family, can they not reject you?In addition, you have Yan Buping, the head of the Yan family, who is taking the lead in looking for things. Can you say that a child of your foreign surname can survive in the Yan family?

People don't even need to do anything, just picking things out for you is enough for you!

Why is the same child of Yan Ningxue, Yan Qingcheng's surname is Yan instead of Mo?

Why do so many people in the Yan family reject him?

There are some things, if he doesn't mention it, it's okay, once it comes up...

Later, "Mo Ming" realized that he might not be Yan Ningxue's son.

This is really terrible for a teenage child. The mother who has always loved him is not his biological mother. What is the difference between the world he lives in is a virtual world?

Mo Ming was a child raised by Yan Ningxue. Perhaps in Yan Ningxue's eyes, bloodline problems were not a problem at all. She didn't care about it, but "Mo Ming" could not ignore this problem.

Although he still calls Yan Ningxue's mother, the kind of estrangement in his heart has been created, and the relationship between him and Yan Ningxue has been cracked.

With this level of reason, "Mo Ming" is even more unlikely to be willing to tell Yan Ningxue about himself.

Yan Qingcheng is the same.

Originally "Mo Ming" was quite afraid of Yan Qingcheng, but later learned that he was not Yan Ningxue's son, and that Yan Qingcheng was not his own sister. The gap between him and Yan Qingcheng became even more obvious. Between the very friendly siblings, the strangeness and alienation are even more evident.

This kind of rift lay between "Mo Ming" and Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng. How could he tell them what he had experienced?

As for "Mo Ming", I dare not say, that is not nonsense.

"Mo Ming" lived very depressed in Yan's family. The whole family rejected him and looked down upon him. This kind of inner pressure, let alone a teenager, even an adult in his 20s and 30s. Some can't bear it.

One can imagine how depressed "Mo Ming" is inside.

This is the Yan family. He didn't know how to deal with these Yan family members. He was afraid that he would be despised by Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng.

This is the logic of children.

At the same time, he was also worried that even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, they wouldn't be able to protect him for the rest of their lives. These little gangsters from the Yan family could find opportunities to bully him at any time.

This... how to put it, in fact, who is like the school violence that often appears in the news...