In fact, if you think about it carefully, a child of the age of "Mo Ming" suddenly becomes unwilling to tell his family about anything, that he is unlearned outside, eats together and waits to die, and was beaten by himself alone. Endure, this situation is nothing more than three reasons:

First, because of the estrangement from the family, in fact, it is very normal for a child of the age of "Mo Ming" to have a estrangement from the family.

Every child at this age will have such a period of rebellion, always feel that he has grown up, understand the world, and how his parents do not understand themselves...

Children of normal people will have this kind of rebellious idea, let alone "Mo Ming".

"Mo Ming" is, after all, a child from a family reorganization. He thought his family was complete, his mother was his mother, and his sister was his sister. As a result, he was suddenly told by his peers that his mother was not. My mother, my sister is not my sister, my home is not my own, what is this?

If you just talk about it, you should know that once this situation spreads to children of this age, it will easily cause various problems. The children of the Yan family around them often use this kind of remarks to stimulate "Mo Ming" and even Using this as a laughing stock, he made a joke of "Mo Ming" and ridiculed "Mo Ming".

How can a teenage child withstand this pressure?

The second is that children are reluctant to say, basically because of the so-called "face" issue.

Children at this age are actually very funny. Their minds are in the growth stage. They have some superficial understanding of the world, and their inner self gradually develops. First of all, they have a sense of dignity.

They feel that they are fighting with others among their peers, looking for a place on their own face, even if they are beaten by the other party, there is no problem, but if they tell the adults about this, they feel very embarrassed.

This logic seems flawed and very brainless, but in fact, this is the case for kids in this grade!

Mo Ming had seen one or two children chat before, one of them belonged to a person who looked like these clan gangsters, and knew that he was hanging out with a bunch of gangsters all day long.

And the other is the kind of person who studies hard.

The two children didn't know how to get together to discuss the fight. The child who studied hard said that he should tell his parents and the teacher if he encountered such a thing, he could call the police. There was no problem with this logic.

But, do you know what that little bastard kid said?

He said directly: "Are you embarrassed to lose yourself like this?"

These two ways of thinking are right and who is wrong, but these children just don't understand.

Solve your own problems yourself. There is nothing wrong with this way of thinking, but the key is where is this way of thinking?

You put this on the top of the fight, it's not right!

But "Mo Ming" doesn't understand this. Although he is not the same as these punks, he still has some such tempers, and feels a bit embarrassed to tell his parents.

Here again I have to talk about the special family environment of "Mo Ming". My mother is not his own mother, and my sister is not his own sister. This kind of estrangement can easily cause various effects, making "Mo Ming" even more important. Pay attention to your face in front of this family.

As for whether this so-called "face" is really "face" is a second word...

As for the third point, "Mo Ming" dare not say.

After all, "Mo Ming" has been in this class for many years, and he has a good understanding of the methods and behavior styles of these peers.

Knowing that these people are not easy to provoke, I really want to fight with these people, I am afraid I will not have a good life in the future.

How do you say this...

In fact, to be honest, according to Mo Ming’s experience, if you get hit by such a gangster, the best way is to scare them all at once and beat them down. Only in this way can they dare Toss you again!

When these little gangsters encounter problems, they basically fight by themselves first, and if they can't fight by themselves, they will call for someone and stop you halfway.

If you don't let them fear you, they will bully you every day.

People are like this. If you are good at bullying, they will bully you every day. If you are tough, they will be afraid of you!

If it were Mo Ming now, it would definitely make these people afraid of him to the bones. Not only would it make them scared, Mo Ming would also let their parents and family members join him to death.

But "Mo Ming" didn't have this ability, he was so weak and incompetent, and he was bullied to the bottom of his nose, so he could only stand next to him.

The logic of a child is like this. A teenager who has never experienced these things, how does he know so much?When encountering such a thing, he only knew that he was next to him, and he was not willing to let Yan Qingcheng and Yan Ningxue help her.

Even if Yan Ningxue and Yan Qingcheng helped him for a while, they couldn't protect him for a lifetime. These little gangsters of the Yan family could find opportunities to bully him at any time.

Some people think that the children who are beaten are stupid. After they are beaten, they neither tell their parents, nor their teachers, nor directly call the police. Children at this age basically follow the same routine.

How do you say this...

In fact, the most correct way to encounter such a thing is to tell the teacher, tell the parents, or directly call the police. I believe that a normal person knows what to do.

However, you must know that the teacher can't really protect someone for a lifetime!

I often see many people on the Internet telling the teacher that the teacher does not ask, or the teacher punishes the child who was beaten...

In reality, there must be such a teacher. After all, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, but I believe that most teachers still have the ability to distinguish black and white.

If you really say it, in most cases, the teacher can't ignore it.

but!

Note that it is "but"!

Teachers are humans. Teachers also have their own families and lives. Educating students is just work. After work, they have to go home to live. How could they keep watching students?

But those violent elementary school students are different. They are classmates, and they are all people of the same age. They are the pervasive existence.

You are in school, and there are teachers watching, those people may not dare to do anything, but when you are out of school, who is watching?

parents?

Yes, parents can pick you up from school to and from school, but if one day is missed, it is time for them to pick up the miss.

Moreover, even if the parents pick up and drop off to and from school, there is a teacher watching at school, it is not a guarantee of safety.